For strangers

• I'd prefer if you ask before dming
• Don't say weird shit about me
• Don't judge me unless you know me
• Respect my names and pronouns. It's not that hard
• Please don't talk about me negatively behind my back
• I can speak up for myself
• Don't ask to be mutuals/friends. I'd prefer becoming friends on my own terms.
• I may not know you IRL but there is still someone BEHIND the screen and I'd prefer if you would have basic respect
• Don't be vague about your boundaries, I act on who I am until and unless you tell me your boundaries. DO NOT complain if I'm being "too mean" I will not apologize. Set your boundaries and I will change then
• If I say DNI, DNI
• I am not sorry if you are hurt by things I say if it was not meant for you.
• If I am uncomfortable with something involving me DO NOT involve me !!!!
• Don't ask to know personal things
These are very cut and dry for a reason, respect these and I'll respect you, please and ty <3

For friends

• You guys can practically do anything
• Flirt with me I don't mind !!! It's always a joke to me :D
• I will not pity you if you do not set boundaries and get sad from things I say
• If I don't respond and I am online (AND ACTIVE) it's because I don't feel like it, I will respond when I feel like I can handle being social again in the meanwhile DO NOT spam, send the occasional message about anything you want as long as it isn't mindless spam
• Don't spread personal information this includes but is not limited to: My face, my address, my school, my legal name, my age etc.
• You are human and I am human if I make a mistake don't just start spreading shit
• If you are too sensitive to be jokingly made fun of don't expect me to stop if you haven't told me. I am not a mind reader. I do not know your preferences until you tell me.
• Don't be vague about your boundaries, I act on who I am until and unless you tell me your boundaries. DO NOT complain if I'm being "too mean" I will not apologize. Set your boundaries and I will change then.
• Don't purposely try to trigger me
• Don't pry for personal shit
• Don't compare trauma, it isn't fair on either of us
• I might vent please please please respond unless I say I don't want a response
• I AM OPEN MINDED !!! TALK TO ME ABOUT THINGS IT'S OKAY !!!
Ily guys <3

DNI

• Basic DNI criteria (Racist, homophobic, etc.)
• 🟩fans/🟩ttwt/🟩twt/:)twt, Basically any dream fan
• If you're sensitive to KYS and die jokes (If you don't express you're uncomfortable with them)
• Genuinely just don't like me for whatever reasons
:D

BYF

• I make KYS and die jokes
• I am very vocal if I don't/do like you
• I say ILY alot so lmk if you're uncomfortable ^^
• Autistic with OCD so I don't really get social queues
• I tend to forget to use tone tags
• Wowee I talk ALOT about my fixations